Garden Envy

Late summer garden chaos. 

​There are times I am a green-eyed gardener, jealous of others picture-perfect gardens.  I know from my own photography that it is easy to move the perspective of the lens to avoid the messiness.  I define my garden as natural, with weeds, untrimmed shrubs, and plants helter-skelter.  I am comfortable with that style of gardening.  It is also true that I am in awe of perfect layouts.  Just as a model in a fashion magazine looks more like an average person without make-up and good lighting; I know the flawlessness shown in the garden magazines may not be so real either.  Anyway, here goes with my garden envy list. 

1. Containers for every season – magazines and social media show containers year-round.  I have concluded that most of the off-season containers are for those who live in less harsh climates that northern Wisconsin.  I’ve tried to have a winter container with fresh conifer greens and dogwood stems but get tired of brushing off the snow and shoveling around it.  The fall containers with plants rarely make sense with such a short fall season before they get frozen and spring is too close to the actual growing season to invest in those container plants.
   
   
2. Outdoor Living Rooms – where do they put all that stuff when it rains, and the wind blows?  Really – pillows, fireplaces, ceiling fans, glass lanterns?  Wouldn’t the bats, squirrels, raccoons, and fox love to burrow into all of that?  But it sure looks inviting.
   
   
3. Weed-free garden paths – Every path is perfect with no weeds, edges are sharp, and the surface material is even.  I’m lucky to keep the moss somewhat at bay.  The bricks are uneven, and the gravel washes out when we have more than an inch of rain on our decline to the lake.  At least it is easy to overlook since the lake view is fantastic.
   
   
4. Mature plants with no overlap – my plants like mingling!  I have no grand scheme so I pay no attention to the width they may attain with age.  Dividing is also a maintenance activity that I am experimenting with how long I can avoid doing in my garden.  After about five years I think the limit might have been reached.
   
   
5. Veggies all in a row – although it looks beautiful it seems such a waste of space and the hoeing involved, oh my!  I grow my veggies in raised beds four feet across and in groups.  Weeds are discouraged by keeping all the space for the vegetables.  And if a rabbit or raccoon (or heaven forbid a bear) happens to get past my double fencing then it really doesn’t matter how the plants are spaced. 
   
   

I could go on and on but will not.  I’m comfortable in my own garden.  It produces the edibles we like, flowers for bouquets, and photo opportunities.  I have come to realize that I prefer to enjoy my garden by sitting in it rather than working in it.  Living in a rural forested area affords me the luxury of less manicured garden spaces that an urban area would frown upon.  Maybe I’m not jealous of all those prefect gardens after all.